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Course 6 of 6 ยท Integrate phase

The Daily Loop

Turn the change into a rhythm you keep on your own.

3 lessons · 6 tools · 7 daily prompts

Lesson 1 · 3-minute read

Repeat What Helps

New responses get stronger with practice. Do not add anything new. Just repeat.

Show me how

Marcus keeps the same plan: when he feels angry at a text, he waits 10 minutes. Same action. Same situation. He is not trying to fix every conflict.

Your small action: Repeat your action whenever a suitable chance comes up. Mark each time.

Easier option: If no chance comes up, rehearse it once.

Lesson 2 · 3-minute read

Start Again

You will slip back sometimes. Everyone does. A slip is information, not failure. What matters is starting again.

Show me how

Marcus sends an angry text before he remembers to wait. Instead of quitting, he asks: “What happened? I was tired and rushed. Next time, I’ll put my phone down first.”

Your small action: Write your restart plan: “What happened: ___. What made it hard: ___. My next small step: ___.”

Easier option: Name just your next small step.

Lesson 3 · 3-minute read

Make Your Keep-Going Plan

You have noticed a pattern, chosen a new response, and practiced it. Now make a plan to keep it going on your own.

Show me how

Marcus’s plan: keep the 10-minute pause, review it every Sunday, and pick one new pattern to work on when he is ready.

Your small action: Fill in your keep-going plan: the life you are working toward, the action you will keep practicing, when you will practice, your easier backup version, how you will track it, when you will review, and who can support you.

Easier option: Write just the action and your review day.

Your tools for this course

Practice with the tools that fit the lesson

Daily prompts

Your week, one minute at a time

Tap a quick reply once you have answered. Short answers are enough.

Monday Write your plan: “When ___, I will ___.”
Tuesday Practice or rehearse once.
Wednesday Did a chance come up?
Thursday Practice or rehearse once.
Friday Is it getting easier to remember?
Saturday What would make it easier next time?
Sunday Keep practicing, repeat a course, or start a new pattern?

Course 6 checkpoint

I will keep practicing ______. My backup version is ______. I will review on ______.